The Most Important Step Of Dating, Do You Know What It Is?

You Must Know The Right Way To Approach A Woman

I want to talk to you about the importance of
meeting women. Seriously.

See, most guys just don't realize that the most
important part of DATING is being able to
MEET the kind of woman you want to date!
If you aren't able to meet a woman, you'll
NEVER be able to date her! DUH!


So if you're neglecting your ability to:

*Overcome Approach Anxiety

*Approach Groups Of Women

*Meet Women In Any Location

*Come In Under Her Radar

You are SERIOUSLY at a disadvantage in your love life! Here's what
the average guys thinks about meeting women:

"I'll just wait for her to be alone, then walk up and compliment her
on her shoes, or something, and then buy her a drink. Then, I'll see
if I can get her number."

That's a train wreck waiting to happen. Let me break this down for
you...

1. Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier
than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with
friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses aren't up.

If you wait until she's by herself to meet her, you're walking
into a situation where she's going to be WAY more defensive than
usual.

2. If you open her with some dumb compliment, she's going to know
you're hitting on her. Why? BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT EVERY OTHER GUY
DOES! If you want to meet a woman, you need to be different, and
not come across as some lamer.

3. Buying a woman a drink is like pick-up suicide! Women will
plug you for free drinks all night long, and never talk to you
again.

The purpose of approaching women is to transition into a DATE.
If you do the "May I buy you a drink" line, you might as well just
say "Hey ladies, I'm a walking ATM for tonight!"

4. Going for the number is always a bad idea! You should be going
for RAPPORT. You should be going for CONNECTIONS. If you can get
those, she'll actually OFFER you her number! And when that happens,
a next meeting is actually going to happen!

Now, answer me this: Do you still think knowing how to approach is
worthless? It's the first step. The most important step. And if
you don't know how to do it, you're screwed.

Is Meeting Women A Chore For You?

You know what? When you're single,
meeting women can be a real chore.
Seriously, it almost gets to the level of
being a "full time job." Going out night
after night, going to club after club, bar
after bar, facing rejection after rejection...
it's hard to do. And because it's hard, it
can get frustrating. People can sense that
frustration on a man. Most men can, and
women DEFINITELY can.

One thing to remember is that you project your attitude to the world
at all times. If you look like you're angry and frustrated and bored,
people aren't gonna want to be around you because you'll drag them
down into your mood. But if you go out with ulterior motives to
meeting women, like going to a club because there's a band there you
want to see, etc., you put yourself in a position where you can
enjoy yourself whether you meet women or not.

Now, we all know it's hard to project that "happy-go-lucky" attitude
all the time. And it's especially hard to do it at will. That's why,
if you're doing things you enjoy, you don't have to worry about
WORKING to feel good, because it'll come naturally. And you'll be
able to carry those feelings with you wherever you go.

Remember this: A guy who's having fun is INFINITELY more attractive
than one who isn't.

That is why the "fun factor" is very important to meeting them!
See, women are empathetic creatures by nature, they are more in tune
with their emotions and the emotions of people around them. When
you're having fun and projecting that energy, the women around you
will pick up on it and be drawn to you because it's a pleasurable
energy, as opposed to being frustrated and nervous, which almost
always pushes others away from you.

So remember to do things YOU like and have fun. Eventually, the
women will come around.

But what about the times you simply aren't able to have fun? What
then? Should you just count out women all together? Of course not.
Being able to turn emotions and feelings on and off is what is
commonly referred to as "State Control."

State Control all comes down to how well you know yourself and are
able to BE AWARE of what you're feeling at all times. And this comes
down to your "inner game," which encompasses things like confidence
and beliefs.

If you'd like to learn more about the art of approaching or seducing
women, or if you want to learn the secrets to success with women then
check out my Top 3 Recommended resources:

(1) How A Guy Can Get Any Girl He Wants!
(2) How To Become An Alpha Male
(3) The Art Of Approaching Women

That's it for now! Until next time, Make the rest of your day
great.

Your friend in success,

Robert
The Penis Help Center

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How To Ask A Girl Out On A Date

The Right Way To Avoid Getting Rejected



QUESTION FROM A READER:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

What and when are the best time and way to ask a girl for a date?

A lot of my friends tell me that the best way is to become a friend
with her at first and then to try to "deepen" the relationship. But
what I do is when I meet a girl that I am interested in, I ask her
out if not immediately, I do it the day after. And I always get
rejected. What do u think?

--- Ivan

MY RESPONSE:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


Well, there's a definite school of thought for both sides of that
argument. But in a way, I think it's a loaded question. But I'll
try to answer it the best I can. What this really depends on is
the type of girl you're going after and the manner in which you
ask her out. So we'll tackle the first part now:

The Type Of Girl
-----------------

Okay, now when I say "type of girl," I'm not talking about who
she is (blond, brunette, 5'7 tall, etc.). I'm talking about how
INTO you she is. See, if a girl likes you, it doesn't matter
when you ask her out. She's going to say YES.

But if she's on the fence, ambivalent to you, or maybe not all
that attracted to you (yet), she may need a little more time for
you to "work your magic" on her before she'll agree to go out
with you.

So before you ask a girl out, try to figure out where she's at
on the "I'm Into You" spectrum. It WILL affect your outcome.
Now onto the second part:

The Way You Ask Her Out
------------------------

This is very important, because it's where most guys make a
mistake. There is a certain strategy to asking a girl out that
can be successful 99% of the time, and I'll share it with you
right here.

Regardless of whether she's into you or not, it's important
that you display your desire for her. Now, I'm not saying you
have to be drooling all over her in lust -- but I am saying
you need to FLIRT with her.

Flirting is important because it will sub communicate your
intentions. Too often, men will hide the fact they like a
girl, and then when they do finally ask her out, the girl
is surprised and scared because it seemed to have come out
of left field.

When you flirt with a girl, what you're doing is "priming
the pump" for the date. So when you DO ask her out, she's
ready for it and in some ways, expecting it. This will
totally bypass that "Shocked deer in headlights" look most
women will give you when they're suddenly asked out by a
guy.

When you try befriending a girl first, you run the risk
of getting pegged in that dreaded "let's just be friends"
category. But if you're flirtatious and the girl knows your
intentions (even if its on a subconscious level), you will
be able to avoid that pitfall because you're making it clear
from the beginning that you want to be more than just
friends.

So if the girl you're working on requires more time, do the
work, but don't completely cloak your intentions. Also,
don't do the "Would you like to go out sometime?" line to
ask a girl out. That's a TOTALLY loaded question because it
instantly snaps her into the "dating" mindset.

You may want to date a girl, but you don't want it to FEEL
like dating, because there are all sorts of preconceived
notions about dating that can work against you in the
long run.

When you ask a girl out, try doing it indirectly. Saying
something like "Hey, I'm going to this great concert (or
movie, or bar, or whatever) tomorrow night. Why don't you
come along?" or "Hey, what are you doing for dinner on
Thursday? I know this great place that I think you'd love!"

When you ask a girl out like this, you are, in fact,
asking her out on a date, but you're bypassing all the
"expectations" of dating. It helps keep things light and
fun while getting you the same result.

If you want to know more about how to tell if a girl is
into you, how to effectively flirt with a girl, and how
to ask a girl out on a date, you should definitely check
out The Art Of Approaching Women.

If you'd like to learn more about the art of approaching,
dating or seducing women, or if you want to learn the secrets
to success with women then check out my Top 3 Recommended
resources:

(1) How A Guy Can Get Any Girl He Wants!
(2) How To Become An Alpha Male
(3) The Art Of Approaching Women

That's it for now! Until next time, Make the rest of your day
great.

Your friend in success,

Robert
The Penis Help Center

P.S. Ugly? Bald? Fat? Or just plain average... Who cares? - women will
want you once you know this little secret. Click here now!

P.P.S. Here are links to some of our Top Rated Associates' websites, you
may find them useful in your pursuit to be the best man you can be:

                 

How To Get The First Date

Approach every girl with the intention of getting her out with you!



There are a lot of guys out there who don't have any problem meeting
women and talking to them. But for some reason, they just can't
quite keep the conversation going to a point where they're able to
ask the girl out. Let me make something clear:

THE WHOLE POINT OF YOU MEETING A GIRL IS TO ASK HER OUT!

So if you fail to do that, then you've just wasted your time.
Seriously, unless you were just bored and looking to pass the time
by chatting someone up, you've accomplished nothing. Whenever you
see a girl you want to meet, your goal should be to GET HER OUT ON
A DATE. Period. End of story.

And in order to do that, you have to build a certain amount of
trust and comfort in her before she will willingly give you her
(correct) phone number.

I know guys who can get a girl's number within a couple minutes
of meeting her. But the quality of that number isn't always the
best. About 90% of the time, it's a fake number the girl gave him
just to get away from him, and the other 10% of the time, the girl
isn't interested enough to go out with him. So going for the
number too soon before you've created enough trust and comfort
could dramatically lower your chances of seeing her again.

So here's what I recommend...

In a previous blog post, we covered how to captivate the girl's
imagination with storytelling, and before that we covered how to
start conversations with women using an Opener.

Now it's time to apply those lessons.

When you first meet a girl, it is usually a good idea to have
at least 3 openers and 3 stories memorized that you can talk to
them about. Be sure that the openers and stories are good,
open-ended, and interactive conversation pieces.

Then, you're going to STACK them.

What do I mean by that? Let's break it down scientifically...
Let's say you have Opener A + Story A.

You meet the girl with Opener A, which leads into Story A. As
soon as Story A runs its course, you change topics with Opener
B, which then leads into Story B. Then you repeat the process
with Opener C and Story C. See how that works?

In my experience, by the end of three stories, the woman
usually feels like she knows you enough and is comfortable
enough with you to want to see you again. THIS is the time
to get her number! I know that some guys might find this
prospect scary, because this could be where she rejects you.

The thing I want you to remember at this point is that women
KNOW when a man approaches them, they're interested in them.
And if you DO NOT ask her for her number, she will assume you
actually AREN'T interested in her, or don't have enough balls
to act on your interest, and move on.

DO NOT FALL INTO THIS TRAP!

Even if you KNOW you're going to crash and burn with this
girl, ask for her number anyway! That's the whole GOAL of
the interaction, so if you're going to fail, fail all the
way. Don't leave the woman you were talking to feeling
like you didn't cross the finish line.

Remember: You're going after the DATE. Get it or die trying!

Here's the sequence I usually follow when getting the date:

1. Invite her out right then and there. Either I'll ask her
what she's doing right now and if she wants to get a drink.
If that's not convenient, I'll ask her if she wants to
meet up later that night.

2. If she says "Yes" to meeting up later, I'll then ask for
her number. If she says "No," I'll still ask for her number
because I like her and I want to see her again.

3. Finally, I'll ask her when a good time to call is.

That simple 3-step process will get you a TON of dates.

Setting up the next meeting during the initial interaction
is ideal. If you can't do that, get her number and try to
set it up later.

Some guys say you should go for an email address instead
of a phone number. I've had mixed results with this tactic.
I still think the phone number is the way to go. Email has
too many variables that aren't in your favor. What if she
doesn't respond to your initial email? If you keep sending
emails, you run the risk of looking desperate.

If you call and she doesn't answer, you can continue to
call until you catch her. Once you get her on the phone
and talking, then you can set up the next date. You can
also ask her about email and Instant Messaging info.
Usually, you want to establish "second contact" before
going that route though.

In The Art Of Approaching Women, you get everything you
need to know to successfully ask a woman out on a date,
from reading her body language, to flirting, to creating
trust and comfort, it's all in there.

And remember, you must always approach every girl
with the intention of getting her out with you!
Unless you do that, you're just wasting your time.

If you'd like to learn more about the art of approaching or seducing
women, or if you want to learn the secrets to success with women then
check out my Top 3 Recommended resources:

(1) How A Guy Can Get Any Girl He Wants!
(2) How To Become An Alpha Male
(3) The Art Of Approaching Women

That's it for now! Until next time, Make the rest of your day
great.

Your friend in success,

Robert
The Penis Help Center

P.S. Ugly? Bald? Fat? Or just plain average... Who cares? - women will
want you once you know this little secret. Click here now!

P.P.S. Here are links to some of our Top Rated Associates' websites, you
may find them useful in your pursuit to be the best man you can be: