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Sunday, September 20, 2009

The Most Important Step Of Dating, Do You Know What It Is?

You Must Know The Right Way To Approach A Woman

I want to talk to you about the importance of
meeting women. Seriously.

See, most guys just don't realize that the most
important part of DATING is being able to
MEET the kind of woman you want to date!
If you aren't able to meet a woman, you'll
NEVER be able to date her! DUH!


So if you're neglecting your ability to:

*Overcome Approach Anxiety

*Approach Groups Of Women

*Meet Women In Any Location

*Come In Under Her Radar

You are SERIOUSLY at a disadvantage in your love life! Here's what
the average guys thinks about meeting women:

"I'll just wait for her to be alone, then walk up and compliment her
on her shoes, or something, and then buy her a drink. Then, I'll see
if I can get her number."

That's a train wreck waiting to happen. Let me break this down for
you...

1. Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier
than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with
friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses aren't up.

If you wait until she's by herself to meet her, you're walking
into a situation where she's going to be WAY more defensive than
usual.

2. If you open her with some dumb compliment, she's going to know
you're hitting on her. Why? BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT EVERY OTHER GUY
DOES! If you want to meet a woman, you need to be different, and
not come across as some lamer.

3. Buying a woman a drink is like pick-up suicide! Women will
plug you for free drinks all night long, and never talk to you
again.

The purpose of approaching women is to transition into a DATE.
If you do the "May I buy you a drink" line, you might as well just
say "Hey ladies, I'm a walking ATM for tonight!"

4. Going for the number is always a bad idea! You should be going
for RAPPORT. You should be going for CONNECTIONS. If you can get
those, she'll actually OFFER you her number! And when that happens,
a next meeting is actually going to happen!

Now, answer me this: Do you still think knowing how to approach is
worthless? It's the first step. The most important step. And if
you don't know how to do it, you're screwed.

Is Meeting Women A Chore For You?

You know what? When you're single,
meeting women can be a real chore.
Seriously, it almost gets to the level of
being a "full time job." Going out night
after night, going to club after club, bar
after bar, facing rejection after rejection...
it's hard to do. And because it's hard, it
can get frustrating. People can sense that
frustration on a man. Most men can, and
women DEFINITELY can.

One thing to remember is that you project your attitude to the world
at all times. If you look like you're angry and frustrated and bored,
people aren't gonna want to be around you because you'll drag them
down into your mood. But if you go out with ulterior motives to
meeting women, like going to a club because there's a band there you
want to see, etc., you put yourself in a position where you can
enjoy yourself whether you meet women or not.

Now, we all know it's hard to project that "happy-go-lucky" attitude
all the time. And it's especially hard to do it at will. That's why,
if you're doing things you enjoy, you don't have to worry about
WORKING to feel good, because it'll come naturally. And you'll be
able to carry those feelings with you wherever you go.

Remember this: A guy who's having fun is INFINITELY more attractive
than one who isn't.

That is why the "fun factor" is very important to meeting them!
See, women are empathetic creatures by nature, they are more in tune
with their emotions and the emotions of people around them. When
you're having fun and projecting that energy, the women around you
will pick up on it and be drawn to you because it's a pleasurable
energy, as opposed to being frustrated and nervous, which almost
always pushes others away from you.

So remember to do things YOU like and have fun. Eventually, the
women will come around.

But what about the times you simply aren't able to have fun? What
then? Should you just count out women all together? Of course not.
Being able to turn emotions and feelings on and off is what is
commonly referred to as "State Control."

State Control all comes down to how well you know yourself and are
able to BE AWARE of what you're feeling at all times. And this comes
down to your "inner game," which encompasses things like confidence
and beliefs.

If you'd like to learn more about the art of approaching or seducing
women, or if you want to learn the secrets to success with women then
check out my Top 3 Recommended resources:

(1) How A Guy Can Get Any Girl He Wants!
(2) How To Become An Alpha Male
(3) The Art Of Approaching Women

That's it for now! Until next time, Make the rest of your day
great.

Your friend in success,

Robert
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